How do I get the Mail Notification to Stay On Until I read the Messages (like Apple).
If I don't get to my mail in a timely manor, I loose mail notifications, both in the Finder Window and on the App Icon.
On my phone (Android 4.1.2), the notifications do not go away, unless I either dismiss the notification, or press on it, which brings me to the e-mail app.
Also, I have it set (under notifications), so that notifications for each account are separate. This provide that reading new e-mails for one account doesn't clear notifications for the rest.
So, if you have notifications going by themselves, without any action from your side, - that might be a function of the system, not the e-mail app. And I don't know what you mean by "Finder Window". Do you have some special launcher? Could it be that the launcher affects the notifications?
Well... one more thought: what e-mail account are you using? There were recent threads about problems with one of the provider (GoDaddy?) - where the bug of the mailserver was/is resulting in erroneous and sporadic counts of the new e-mail messages. That can clear your the indicator of the number of new messages on the Aquamail widget, if you are using one (Did you call that "App Icon"?)
Also how do I set it to mark email as read when I read the email message without changing it to a particular time.
What do you mean by "changing it to a particular time"?
When the message is marked read, no time is changed in the message.